The Difference Between Girls and Women,
Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get inwhere he fits in.
Girls want to control the man in their life.
Grown women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.
Girls check you for not calling them.
Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn't.
Girls try to put a man 'on lock' by using sex.
Grown women know that it's the sex of the mental kind that makes a man want to 'lock' you down.
Girls fake-moan, lay there and take the stabbing.
Grown women say, "Just stop", get up, get dressed and walk it out.
Girls are afraid to be alone.
Grown women revel in it-- using it as a time for personal growth.
Girls ignore the good guys.
Grown women ignore the bad guys.
Girls make you come.
Grown women make you come home.
Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.
Girls try to monopolize all their man's time (i.e, don't want him hanging with his friends).
Grown women realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'togethertime' even more special -- and goes to kick it with her own friends!
Girls think a guy crying is weak.
Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.
Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.
Grown women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate w/o fear of losing his 'manhood'. Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown women know that that was just one man.
Girls fall in love, chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'.
Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, don't always love you back -- and move on, without bitterness.
Girls will read this and get an attitude.
Grown women will read this and pass it on to other Grown women!!
A real woman who knows what she wants. Read the poem and it should tell all. "A GOOD MAN" You say you want a "good man", but when it comes to finding one you won't, 'cause when it comes to really finding one ladies, quite frankly, you really don't ! You say you want a "good man", one that Will give you hugs, But every time I turn around you're always chasing thugs! You say you want a "good man", and I'm here to tell you that's not true! 'Cause the last one that came your way wasn't tall enough for you! You say you want a "good man" 'cause you're tired of trifling mess, But you rolled your eyes at the last one because you didn't like how he was dressed! You say you want a "good man', one that will have you for his wife, yet every time you come across one you say, "He's just too nice!" You say you want a "good man", and I'm not saying to make him beg, but a man should at least know your first and last name before you open up your legs! If you try this with a "good man", I promise, He won't be pleased! For he might just realize that many others may have, also, had you with ease! So, in order to get a "good man", you need to listen - it's really in your favor ; Beginning with the fact, that no "good man' wants a woman who curses like a sailor! And in your quest to find a "good man" listen as if it's law! You'll never find a "good man" , when you keep labeling men as dogs! A "good man' wants a woman that expects to receive his best, but you'll never get that "good man" when you keep settling for less! Now, if you've found that "good man" that you think might be right for you, you'll know he's not a "good man" If he won't go to church with you!! For in the life of a "good man", you're not first, but don't take it hard. 'Cause you're standing right there next to him, but you're second after God! So, if you'd like to attract a "good man", there's only one thing left to do…. Act, be, and do like a "good woman" should, and a "good man" just might come to you...